Sixty two years old and scratching his head in thoughtful frustration, the founder was at the end of his rope. He had tried for years to transition the company to leaders that could pick up the ball and run with it. It hadn’t happened yet and he now doubted whether it ever would. The financial transition incentives were well thought out, but that had been clear for years. He got anxious every time he thought about being saddled with the daily grind of continued operational responsibility.
Having started the company forty years ago just out of school, it had been a great ride. Only in the past few years had he lost some of the fire. Unlike previous attempts to transition, he was truly ready to move on now. But he didn’t know how to pass on the company spirit or “soul” – that fire in his belly, to the next generation. His senior officers were in their 50s and most were already thinking about retirement. He knew he had to do something quickly if he was going to leave a legacy, so the company could go beyond him and continue to provide pensions to loyal employees and service to the long-term clients who had helped him get here.
Legacy is first of all People Leadership
Passing the reins of a company is not a mechanistic process, as many financial and management advisors might have you think. Although necessary for success, these aspects will not sustain the passion and caring of the founder. Something more is needed. There needs to be a re-alignment of human interest, desire and outcome behind new leadership. There needs to be a proper re-establishment of authority in the absence of the founder, but that authority must be earned and embedded into an effective working network of trusting relationships. While based upon the foundation of the past, this change of leadership must be oriented around the development of a better future—one that the next generation is involved in creating.
An initial meeting is held
Being technically and scientifically trained, at first they didn’t trust the “touchy-feely” leadership consultant the founder had brought in to help with the transition. There was obvious resistance to the idea of working with a younger “next generation” beneath the execs; yet the Sr. team sat in stony silence—not wanting to openly go against the founder’s wishes. At some point one of the leadership team members broke the silent disagreement and said: “What about us? Some of us have been waiting to lead this company for years and you are now taking that opportunity away from us!” As the room went silent again, the founder looked at his team and gently asked them: “How many of you are going to rely on your pensions to see you through retirement?” Every hand in the room went up. Being bright, they immediately saw his point. They had to build a new system that would sustain them into their 70, 80s and 90s. They knew what they had to do… they not only had to support the development of the younger managers, but this time had to step aside smartly and actively engage in coaching instead of providing energy, focus and exection they had done for years.
From this meeting forward with varying degrees of success, they began building the next generation’s confidence and their ability to recover from failure; helping them to find the needed drive to deeply care and to believe in themselves and to never give up. Even though their path was clear, the transition for this executive team was not going to be easy—their self-esteem had been tied to their personal performance for so long. They had to operate outside-of the identity they had built with fine performance for many years. In other words, they had to provide Real Leadership. Stepping aside properly and systematically became their new mission. They had to change their roles, and to do so they had to change their leadership behavior, which meant they had to change their mind.
Self Awareness, the Foundation of Changing Minds and Behavior
The real value of self-awareness based leadership development, when properly done, goes beyond mere feedback about one’s behavior, strengths, weaknesses and personality. In fact, much of what is touted as “self- awareness training” really isn’t. It may provided useful intellectual and conceptual insight into the workings of one’s own personality, ego or “identity” but that isn’t the primary goal of the development of Self Awareness.
Self awareness is about becoming aware of and seeing from the authentic self. The authentic self is a place in conscioiusness, not a concept or tangible achievement. To get out of the box of past belief, behavior and habit—one must first “understand the box.” And it is this process of first discovering and then exiting the box of past belief and experience that one releases authentic self awareness or more esoterically “frees consciousness.” It is a place, according to Harvard behavioral scientist Daniel Goleman’s research and theory of emotional intelligence that can be intentionally developed; it is where what I call the ”Real Leader” resides. It is an identifiable place to “experience and see from” that recognizes ego, and habitual behavior, but can operate beyond its dictates in a peaceful manner. It is a meta-program one places in their own mind…an “observer-operator” of sorts that looks through the front window and what is required of the road ahead, and not into the rearview mirror of past experience, belief and habit. Education (not training) is usually required to first experience this authentic self awareness, followed by specific practices to effectively strengthen its effective use. Contrary to this today 360s, personality tests,feedback sessions and coaching techniques are mostly geared to teaching people about their memory based habitual system of mindsets, beliefs and behaviors we call “personality.” This would be more accurately described as “personality awareness” and not self awareness. The outcome of this innocent but mistaken approach is that its doesnt place-in a mechanism to sustain transformation and people revert-back to old behavior and we end up hearing such statements as: “People don’t change so why try! Or; “you can’t teach old dogs new tricks!” (Even though we now know through the research on brain plasticity that the brain can change throughout life. Schwartz (2002) “The Mind and Brain.”)
The process by which one builds real self awareness is behavioral science technology. Using this technology, leaders can get a handle on their behavior and the subsequent outcomes in their life and leadership. It helps smooth the transition from one role to the next. This is profoundly important, because Leadership Legacy™ situations are, along with merger & acquisitions, brand changes, and entrepreneurial company start-ups, the most profoundly challenging leadership assignments. Without authentic self awareness, such assignments are unnecessarily more difficult and significantly more likely to fail.
Getting the job done
They began to build a foundational leadership model to change their behavior and their leadership. To do so each of the Sr. executives began attending a self-awareness-based leadership development program. They opted to attend the same program to make sure they built a common language. Following this, their consultant followed up with coaching precisely targeted at their challenge of learning how to coach. Coaching is a higher level skill and some of them found it difficult to learn, but over time they each succeeded in their own way.
Executive management, led by the Founder, selected fourteen of their top “up and comers.” This was initially met with some resistance, because the company culture was that they never “play favorites”; however, the leadership stayed the course, led smartly, and offended only a few key people in the long run. The talented young managers were selected from both operations and staff. The Founder stayed heavily involved in the selection and development. In fact, everyone knew this was “his” mission, supported by his Sr. Execs and others. Their consultant warned him that any “delegation” of this assignment would result in eventual failure. Everyone knew that they were building their future through these young people, and it became a central unifying challenge for the executive team. The young managers knew they were going to be on the hot-seat for a year, but accepted the challenge. The founder and executives knew the same was true for them too.
Training assignments involved the Sr. Executives in private one-on-one discussions with the next generation, as well as in teaching group sessions on topic of importance to the business. Everything was geared to the Sr. Execs and the Founder sharing their personal “feelings,” their commitment, and their knowledge. In addition to involving the younger managers in the development of the future direction of the company, they let the next generation in on the “inside scoop” or the “secret sauce” of what made them and the company successful. Key events in the history of the company were passed on personally. Relationships between the younger managers were systematically strengthened for greater trust, which the officers knew was essential to superior communication and would pay dividends for years to come, as better coordination, execution and the results that would sustain their goals (and their pensions).
Over time, with participation and coaching, the next leadership system strengthened and formed. From that group, natural talents and strengths emerged. Where there were gaps, executive management could now see clearly and backfill. Most of all they had a cadre of Real Leadership that could provide the adaptive energy to the future demands of the business.
And the founder? He is now enjoying writing a long overdue book, spending time with his grandchildren and has started a new part-time business venture, along with significant community volunteerism.
John
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